How important is it to remove the clutter from our minds by living in the past or the future? Life as we know it is about living in the NOW. Always expect more for yourself and understand that you run your own show because once you understand the rule of personal responsibility you give yourself permission to be in charge of the divine you as a soul. E.g. I came from a family that was full of alcohol and abuse so it is hard for me, I always pick abusive partners, or when I get better I will look for a new job. The list goes on.

Have you ever wondered why things never go right for you, or you can’t get ahead? Are you sick of being broke and you always wonder why? Do you often feel stuck in your life and always feel as if you attract bad luck? Usually you don’t have to go too far to find out where the answer lies because you just have to stop, take a breath and have a look within.  Even though you find it hard to believe, it is usually you who is your own worst enemy, just in the way you think.

The Patterns:

I can’t, I will try, maybe tomorrow, I’m not good enough, poor me, oh my God, I should have done that… It’s all their fault… I’ve always been like this… Why should I? Because everybody picks on me…I can’t do anything right…. I can’t afford the petrol Hun, I am so stupid… It is not my fault… The list goes on

Never again let another negative thought form enter your head because most of it is all fear based, or what I call ‘the dark forces’ in your head you have picked up or carried for years like an old program from your past. These ‘old used and worn out patterns’ enter your beautiful creative mind and sabotage everything that is good in your life because only you allow it to.

Most of these old broken down programmes can be thoughts about ourselves that we have carried within us since childhood. They have been buried in our subconscious minds for so long that they have over time become part of our reality in the way we perceive or think about ourselves and the world around us. Remember the old saying ‘what you believe about yourself you become” If you believe you are stupid, and then people will see you like that. By simply changing the way you think and letting more joy, happiness and love into your life, you can change your life and create miracles. Don’t ever be afraid of being the real you as we are all divine souls and deserve so much more.

HOW TO GET STARTED FOR THE ‘NEW YOU

To get started on the new you, make a promise to yourself that for the next week or so, you will never feel guilty or put blame on yourself for wanting to change the way you live and feel by simply asserting with a positive instead of a negative. This should concern yourself, and not others. We all have free will, and we all need to walk our own path.

MAKE A LIST

Write down every word of negativity you’ve ever been given by the people around you, then tear up the list and burn it. Once you have done this, bury it in the ground so Mother Nature can heal it and in turn allow you to bring a new energy in. It is up to you now to believe in yourself and decide what you can and can’t do…. Don’t forget also that it is okay to say no.

MEANS AND WAYS OF MENDING YOURSELF SPIRITUALLY

Affirmations

‘Affirmations are pure and beautiful soul food’

One of the most important keys for eliminating insecurities and establishing a habit of self-love is the use of affirmations. These really work, especially done in the mirror, so we can see the eyes, which are the windows of the soul.

Just express the loving words out loudly and clearly for who we want to be in the mirror everyday can actually change the way we think. Through affirmations we can think ourselves healthier, wealthier, stronger, beautiful, and confident: whatever our hearts desire. Soon this will become a part of your belief system, and nobody can ever take that away from you again once you start to tell yourself this everyday.

“I am a beautiful person and I love you.”

“Everyday, in everyway, I am happy, safe and secure.”

“I deserve the best always, thank you.”

“I always find myself in the right place at the right time to receive golden opportunities

Try Writing Letters to the universe

Another effective way to reinforce your affirmations is by writing them down. Address them to God or the Universe, your angels or spirit guides-whoever you want. Then you may wish to place your request in a “Jesus Box”, “Guardian Angel Box” or a box dedicated to the Lightbeing of choice. This symbolises surrender and trust that your manifestation is now a reality. By making a commitment, it becomes even stronger and an investment in yourself.

Tithing (energy exchange)

Sharing and caring is a really good thing because giving back to the universe will always create positive karma and earthly rewards in our life. Always remember to look after our good friends, our loved ones, unfortunate people and if possible donate as we are creating waves and positive currents of beautiful, uplifting energy. Caring and sharing brings many spiritual rewards, and is good karma. What we give back will always come back tenfold.

Visualize what you want in your life

This is a powerful way to manifest in a simple meditation.

Sit quietly, in a comfortable position.

Breathe in and out three times whilst letting go of any negativity we may be holding.

Now think of something that you want very much, so long as it is good for your Higher Self and will not hurt anyone.

As you being to concentrate on what it is, that you really want, think of a really happy emotion and visualise what you want as if it is happening now.

Hold this for three minutes.

Once you have done this, let it go like a balloon, surrendering it with love to the universe.

Create your own story… (Be the star of your own show)

Be the author and creator of you dreams. For this, you need to write a story of at least one or two pages long in the present text about your dream situation. This is how you want your life to be.

Be very careful what you ask for, because you might just get it.

Nowadays, with the new energies coming through and the way energy is expanding at a quicker rate, moving faster here on this dimension, you will notice your manifestations happening a lot faster than what you anticipated. Always believe in your dreams. Of course, some dreams will take a bit more time to manifest but never give up. Nevertheless you will be pleasantly surprised with what you end up with. Always remember that the world is your oyster, so it is up to you to create your dreams here and now.

2015 is a universal eight-year so many of us this is a good year to be successful and create.

 

Good luck everyone, Love and light

Kerrie Erwin